Making Christmas real to our Children.
I will remember your miracles of long ago.
I will meditate on all your works,
and consider all your mighty deeds.
As I read my bible and journeyed through the Old Testament I noticed that every time the Lord did something great for his people He created a memorial for them to remember. Memorials are reminders of Godβs faithfulness, His sacrifice, His leading, His provision etc which in turn became traditions practiced for generations.
Traditions:
- The passing down of elements of a culture from generation to generation,
- A mode of thought or behaviour followed by a people continuously from generation to generation,
- a custom or usage.
- A time honoured practice
Dr. Dobson says:βThe great value of traditions comes as they give a family a sense of identity, βbelongingnessβ. All of us desperately need to feel that weβre not just a cluster of people living together in a house, but weβre a family thatβs conscious of its uniqueness, its personality, character and heritage, and that our special relationships of love and companionship make us a unit with identity and personality.β
Traditions can be created on purpose or evolve over time, they create our family identity and teach our children something of the reality of God in our lives. Special moments donβt just happen they are planned on purpose. Consider creating links between generations so that our children understand the heritage that is theirs. The Lord says I will bless the righteous unto a thousand generations.
So what does Christmas really mean?
The Collins Concise Dictionary defines Christmas as:
1-a. The annual commemoration by Christians of the birth of Jesus Christ on Dec 25
-b. also called Christmas Day, Dec 25, observed as a day of secular celebrations when gifts and greetings are exchanged
2- Another name for Christmastide (Old English Christes Maesse MASS OF CHRIST)
It is interesting to note here that even the dictionary makes a distinction between the Christian commemoration and the secular celebrations that take place on Dec 25.
Some Ideas for you to choose from:
Nativity Trek. A friend of mine shared this idea with me. They have a nativity calendar made of a square of material with 25 pockets on that have the numbers 1-25 on them. Each morning they take turns removing a cardboard candy cane from a pocket and reading the instructions written there.
Most of the instructions pertain to their homemade Nativity Set (a knitted one made over several years!). On Dec 1st they set up the manger where the tree will be, put the shepherd and sheep in a nearby βfieldβ, and place Mary and Joseph somewhere βfar awayβ, and the Wise Men somewhere equally βfar awayβ but in the opposite direction! Most days there are instructions to move a figure(s) somewhere, e.g. βMove Mary and Joseph from the piano to the TV.β Other days there are things like βMake Christmas biscuits for the neighboursβ.
Whatever journey the participants take, Jesus does not turn up in the manger in the stable until Christmas morning. This way the childrenβs attention is not so much on βWhat did I get?β but on βIs Jesus there yet?β.
Setting up the tree :We also talk about what Christmas means to us with the children and specially how the symbols we have today can point us to Jesus. I do this every year. This tradition is especially dear to me as I know no matter where my children go in the world each time they see any of these colours they will think of these things.
Eg: Christmas tree-
- Evergreen to symbolize the eternal life we have in Christ and Godβs eternal love for us demonstrated in sending His Son
- Redβrepresent His blood shed for you and me. The price He paid.
- GoldβThis is His crow in glory as the Son of God
- Purple- His royal robe.
- White - His purity. The Lamb without blemish.
- Star- the star over the manger
- Lights- stars in the heavens at the time of His birth or He is the light of the world.
- Angels- for the heavenly host who sang
- SilverβHis promises fulfilled
- Blueβ Creation In the beginning He made the heavens and the earth
Advent means βcomingβ and the activities are a time of preparation for the coming of Christ. We use a series of Advent story books as the centre for our advent celebrations. They are complete with instructions and historical notes and calendars to know when to start Advent each year. The first book is called β
Jothamβs Journeyβ by Arnold Ytreeide and is available in most Christian book shops. Generally an
advent wreath is used which basically has five candles and you light one a week and burn it each night as you read the story.
Other people burn
a dated candle (one section a day), read a bible passage and sing/pray together each evening as a way of preparing the stage for Christmas Day
Hand Wreath You can also make a Christmas Hand Wreath. Keep red and green card handy by the front door and have every guest who visits your home over the month trace and cut out their hand and label with their name. You can then put them all together!
Or⦠keep a jar of
jaffas and spearmint leaves by the door for friends to have when they leave
Christmas Cards Keep all the Christmas cards you receive and then start to pray for each family one card at a time from New Year on! Once you have prayed for a family put the cards in a box for the children to use for Christmas craft the next year
Jesse Tree The Jesse Tree is a centuries-old family Advent devotion that has enjoyed a resurgence of popularity in recent years. It has particular value since it helps both the children and adults a like to locate Jesus, the Messiah, within the lineage of the shepherd boy who became King of Israel--David, son of Jesse.
The whole idea of the Jesse Tree comes right out of a classic Advent passage from the prophet Isaiah: "A shoot will sprout from the stump of Jesse; from his roots a Branch will bear fruit" (Is 11:1). The Jesse Tree is hung with ornaments representing Old Testament people and events and lead up to Jesus. The traditional symbols hung on the tree are based on the genealogy of Jesus as recounted by the first chapter of the Gospel of St. Matthew
Set up a tree or branches with or without leaves. For the ornaments, you can either buy a Jesse Tree kit or just craft them yourself. Traditionally, there is one ornament for each day of Advent. You start at the base of the tree with Adam and Eve. At the top of the tree at the very end of the season comes a crib representing the baby Jesus. There's a brief scripture reading for every symbol (see below). If you read these readings and contemplate them and the symbols to which they are linked, by December 25th you and your family will have a much deeper understanding of the history of salvation and the meaning of Christmas.
** I am in the midst of making a couple of Jesse Tree's and will be posting another post with links for you to make your own. I will update with a link here soon.
Box of Blessings The original idea for this came from a
Focus on the Family magazine. Each day, Dec 1st through 25th, the children open a small gift. There is a spiritual gift attached to each item that should be mentioned. Sometimes this leads to a good discussion, sometimes not, but it will give opportunity to think about what we are really celebrating. There are many variations you can do with the βBox or Basket of Blessingsβ. The original one is to use common household objects to illustrate things we can be thankful for example:
- pennyβGodβs provision,
- Photo of the familyβOur family,
- plasterβour health,
- small dollβour friends etc.
A variation is to use the
attributes of God:
- heartβlove,
- glassesβomniscience,
- watchβeternal,
- scalesβjustice etc.
Or you can use the story of Christmas:
- AngelβLuke1:26-29 Gabriel's appears to Mary,
- CrownβLuke1:30 prophecy of Jesus as king,
- EarringβLuke 1:34-38 Mary the bond slave of the Lord,
- RingβMatt 1:18-21 Joseph trusts the Lord and marries Mary,
- JESUSβMatt1:22-25 Meaning of Jesus name,
- Tax FormβLuke 2:1-5 Trip to Bethlehem for census,
- ClothesβLuke 2:6-7 Jesus born and wrapped,
- SheepβLuke 2:8-9 shepherds are frightened,
- HayβLuke 2:10-12, Fear not,
- Music tape/GloriaβLuke 2:13-14 Angels praise God,
- MapβShepherds find their way to Bethlehem,
- HeartβMary treasures these things in her heart,
- 2 dovesβOffering made for Jesus,
- GlassesβSimeon has watched for the Messiah,
- SwordβSimeonβs prophecy,
- PerfumeβAnna prayed and fasted,
- HorseβMagi search for the king,
- CrownβHerod threatened by Jesus the King,
- CalendarβHerod determines when Jesus will be born,
- Starβshows Magi where Jesus is,
- GoldβGifts given to Jesus,
- PyramidβJoseph takes his family to Egypt,
- HomeβJoseph takes his family home to Nazareth,
- Tape MeasureβThe child grew strong, wise and in the grace of God,
- CandleβJesus is the light of the world.
Other Ideas
- Photoβs of absent family members put them on your tree, pray for them
- Watch family movies, look at family albums
- Have communion on Christmas Eve / Morning
- Read the bible account in Luke 2
- See the lights in your neighbour hood ( You could make it extra special by sending your children to bed at the normal time then surprise them when it is dark and get them up and follow it with a special Christmas supper and hot drink when you get home.)
- Write a Christmas prayer as a family to read before opening presents on the day. Have it focus on thankfulness.
- Donate Toys to a charity every year
- Bake for your neighbours,
- Have a special ornament for each child that they put on the tree each year.
- Get dated ornaments
- Go carol singing around the block or at a local Retirement Village
The lists are endless and you could feel very over whelmed by what others around you are doing. We do NOT do all the things on this list. These are ideas I have gathered through the years.
The thing that is important is to find what works for your family and do that well.
It is far better to choose one or two things and do those things with excellence and passion than to do ten things with mediocrity and no passion.
May you be blessed this Advent season
Blessings
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